Dear Brother

I don't know what I can do for you anymore. I have given you all the advice that I have to give and yet you continue to screw up your life. There is only so much of your craziness that I can handle at one time. I guess I am kind of a wimp because I can't actually tell you any of this stuff myself. I want to tell you, trust me. I just don't know that you and I could have a "normal" relationship. You treat woman like trash and you expect me to clean up your messes. I don't want to do it anymore.

What can I tell you that will make you see that what you are doing is only bad for you and that you are not preparing yourself for the real world. For far too long I and every one else have been giving you everything that you need. I have to stop. I hope that everyone else does too. Maybe then you will hit bottom and have to do something to get back on your feet. Maybe it will take that for you to see that life isn't free.

You know that I love you. I would do anything for you, that is why things are so hard for me right now. I have enough money and health problems to deal with, then to deal with having to send you money every other week. Your going to have to get a job and your going to have to learn how to support yourself and maybe then you will realize that money isn't something you get just by asking for it.

I know that you are going to be pissed at me for awhile but I can live with that if it teaches you a thing or two about life. Your not a child anymore. You are an adult now. You have been for a while. And you need to stop looking for girlfriends based on what they can do for you. You need to give them something in return in order for it to be a good relationship.

Hopefully all will work out in the end. For now, I say good bye.