A Female Problem

Normally I am not very open about my female problems but since this is anonymous I feel like I can speak freely and hopefully get some advice or help someone else in the process. I have been tracking all of my female problems, it's a great site and it is worth paying the yearly fee for the extra features if you have any problems in this area because you can print out charts that you can then take you your doctor. The site is MyMonthlyCycles.com.

The problem that I have been having is that my periods are getting further and further apart. I am only 31 but my mother went through menopause at the age of 35 and my aunt at 32. It is very possible that the time has come for me too. My doctors however don't think it is possible. I don't know how to make them really take it seriously. Another option might be one of my auto immune disorders.

About 5 years ago I was diagnosed with arthritis, 3 years ago they found out that I also had a thyroid condition, lastly they think that I also have lupus. So, the problem could be a side effect of one of these conditions.

My periods are getting further and further apart from each other. According to the calendars that I have been keeping since January, I have only had my period 3 times in the last 9 months. My last period was over 3 months ago. I am getting cramps and everything but no luck yet.

I wouldn't be disappointed if this is early menopause. I have already decided that I don't want anymore kids. I just wish that I knew what the problem is. At the same time I am afraid to go in for an exam because I don't want to have her get down there and have it start. So I am waiting for the next time to come and then make an appointment. That could be awhile from now for all I know, it could also be tomorrow.

Is there anyone reading this who can tell me from experience what the symptoms of menopause are? Especially early menopause? I have had an issue with feeling really cold and then really hot. I have had trouble sleeping more and more as time goes by. I am easily irritated, which I never used to be. I am having the typical PMS symptoms, that I never had before. If you have any tips or help please respond to this, I am desperate.